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Real M/s isn’t about fitting a mould. Bill H. was their first pledge, and the ONYX colors were created by our ONYX Brother Charles C. of Caliber Leather. ONYX sets as its goal to provide information and safe spaces to address issues specific to BIPOC who choose to project the positive aspects of the leather and/or kink lifestyle while supporting our community and economic initiatives.
Founded in 1995, ONYX looks to provide education and serve as a bridge for BIPOC men to the greater Leather community.
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The STERA™ Method gives your M/s dynamic the strength to last — your way. We are the longest existing leather club for BIPOC and are known for our hospitality and our infamous annual fundraisers, the ONYX Leather Dance at International Mr. Leather Weekend in Chicago and our Cocktail Party and Gear Show at Mid-Atlantic Leather in Washington, DC.
ONYX celebrates its biennial anniversary with our ONYX BLACKOUT Weekend Run which occurs in the Fall!
Support, spirituality, safety, and saneness are keys to attaining our goals. It is the responsibility of each member to uphold the traditions, standards, and practices of this organization as well as the time-honored principles of democracy on which this country was built.
All who support our cause may become members of ONYX.
Toward this end, it is the principal aim of ONYX to develop in its members’ the highest standards of loyalty to the laws and established ONYX Men Code and to treat all in society with honor, unselfishness, and tolerance.
It is the fundamental belief of this organization that no finer means is offered for the achievement of these aims than the brotherly association of persons with similar tastes, inclinations, and goals.
ONYX honors that tradition and looks forward to many more years of excellence.
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Video Version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/128445965 Jeremy of No safeword press Joins us to Discuss the challenges of bringing classic Leatherbooks back to mainstream print, and the importance of keeping our communities history alive, warts and all.
We thank the elders in the BIPOC Leather Community for paving the way for us to exist.
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Chief Executive Officer:Master Rodin
Director of Operations:Master Dante Amor
Secretary:Kay Danni
Financial Officer:Master John
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ONYX is an organization formed and operated by BIPOC men who enjoy the leather and/or kink lifestyle.
The goal of ONYX is to provide an informational and social organization to address the issues specific to gay/bisexual men of color who choose to discuss and/or participate in the Leather/SM/Fetish lifestyle.
ONYX is a national organization with a reach that spans from coast to coast. Hopefully there is some information here that will aid you in your chosen life's path.
Whether you’re building from scratch or deepening something already strong, you don’t have to figure it all out alone.
I’ve spoken with over 20 Masters and slaves, studied psychology, and lived this life myself.
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Safe. Seen. Sure. ONYX has shown significant growth, increased its visibility and has built alliances all across the nation and abroad.
The ONYX National Council (ONC) provides value-added oversight that enables the entire ONYX organization and its chapters to make consistent progress toward our mission to cultivate external partnerships and sponsorships that align with our mission and support our standing as a valued contributor to the LGBTQIA+ community.
ONYX has a longstanding reputation within the community with members nationwide and internationally.